What do YOU want out of life?

Life is busy, and expensive (money, thinking energy, emotional energy, attention, self control)
Autopilot saves us from this mental load by making basic decisions without much involvement.
We can become stuck in autopilot, though, and find ourselves living a life we barely recognize as our own.
The sudden realization that the job, relationship, or lifestyle doesn’t bring fulfillment or even enjoyment can be shocking and overwhelming
These feelings are real and important, and paying attention to these signals is the first step towards a life you look forward to living.

If this sounds familiar, don’t worry! You’re not alone!
SO MANY PEOPLE struggle to enjoy the lives that they have spent a -ahem- lifetime building.
And there IS an alternative! What if we took some of the energy we are spending already on building our life and we move it over here towards something we actually want? It is never too late to choose fulfillment. It isn’t fast, and it isn’t easy, but it is worth the effort to seek joy. Remember that whole “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness” thing?

Now, where are we going?
Some people know right away what it is they want to do with their lives, it is always on our mind and we just needed an excuse to make the change.
For others, the idea that we have any leverage over our own destiny is such a revelation that we aren’t ready to go all in on any changes just yet.